Build a bridge and get over it

I missed him today. The ex.
Even though I was the one that broke it off...preemptive move on my part to avoid getting hurt (it's how I do - though I still end up getting hurt). I miss having him in my life. I miss the plans we made that never came to pass. I miss him.

It was bound to happen. Not uncommon for having broken up four days ago. Our relationship was doomed from jump street. I was on the rebound from a six-month relationship, he was on the rebound from a divorce. Two people on the rebound. Basically a recipe for disaster. I did us both a favor by letting go. Doesn't make it any easier, though.

Thanks to this blog, I don't feel the urge to jump into another relationship or into the dating pool just yet. Unlike the past, I will allow myself the time to mourn this man. However long that takes. Here's an interesting anonymous quote I found online: "Cry a river, build a bridge and get over it." and that's exactly what I will do...